Balance of Happiness

Posted by on May 7, 2017 in Blog Posts

In three previous pieces, Squandering TimeStaying Social, and Taking Time Off, I discussed what matters in the world: 1) focusing on bettering yourself and having future goals, going out with people/being social, and just completely vegging out and letting your mind turn to pudding.  Now, these weren’t long pieces by any means, but I think they convey enough to help people on their way to being a fully rounded person.  As for me, I live my life based on the principle of borrowed time.  There are only so many hours in a day, so many days in a week, and so many weeks in a life.  As such, I am not willing to squander that time unless I have accomplished something towards my own goals.  In the past, my week was structured in a pretty spontaneous way; I never had issues completing tasks before meeting up with friends.

Now, I am not in such a luxurious place.  After calculating out my time, with work and what I believe I need to do to be a successful author, I’ve run into a weird deficit where I only get twenty-seven hours of awake time for non-writing activities (I count reading as a writing activity).  This is based on getting seven hours of sleep during the week, working eight hours with a forty minute commute (total), and writing forty hours a week.  As such, I’ve basically had to cut out television and movies from my life, otherwise, I would never see friends.  During a week, I see friends two to three times, and during a weekend maybe once or twice – I drink during the week since I won’t have time to write after hanging with my friends.  I get up early, so I can get to work early and leave early, giving me three-four hours a day during the week to write or read (some of that time is now taken up by working out, I was getting a little too pudgy).

So how do I do it?  Simple, I try to solve each of the three necessities in a single week.  In order to show you how that works, I figure I would break down a normal workday and a weekend day (Sundays have meal prep for the week in them, and every month there is a day devoted to Cleaning/Picking Up/Binge watching Television).  [click “Read More” for my basic schedule]

Workday

  1. Wake up, grind coffee beans, listen to news, make coffee
  2. Drink coffee, read section of news article (Stay informed, create new ideas, Work to the Future)
  3. Go to work – bust ass for 8.5 hours
  4. Get home, lay on bed and let mind rest (Time Off)
  5. Workout and watch television shows that were recorded (Time Off)
  6. Write (Work to the Future)
  7. Go see friends (Be Social)
  8. Write (Work to the Future)
  9. Read (Work to the Future)
  10. Sleep (Survive)

Weekend Day

(lot more variance, but this is pretty solid review of a common weekend)
  1. Wake up two hours later (sevenish)
  2. Go to coffee shop, read, drink water
  3. Write/Edit
  4. Get the shakes from not eating (Cook a glorious meal, usually around 1 or 2)
  5. Veg out on TV while digesting
  6. Drink pot of tea, edit/write
  7. Drink pot of tea, edit/write
  8. Get the shakes from caffine, eat to calm nerves
  9. Go out with friends (rage!)
  10. Adjust morning wake up based on time in bed